warning - this is kind of a long, random post!!
FACT: I do not know how to relax. This explains why, in the nine days that have passed since my last final exam, I have not sat still. My husband, who has started summer sessions and works 20+ hours a week, is irritated that I do not know how to take advantage of down time. The last time I relaxed was last August I think. Our month long winter break was dominated by a two week trip to Costa Rica {which was relaxing but VERY busy as we spent two weeks touring a LOT of the country} and a two week self impose brief writing boot camp for my
moot court competition. Spring break was spent preparing for a practice argument before the Chief Justice of the Maine Supreme Judicial Court, a United States District Court Judge, and a Bankruptcy Judge, and traveling to NYC to compete. Not to mention this past semester was definitely the most hectic to date, with a full course load, Law Journal editing to do, and practice arguments at different law firms three nights a week.
Nevertheless, I have been VERY productive this past week and this "free time" has allowed me to get caught up on some things that have been long neglected {like our closet! I cleared out three trash bags worth of clothes that I will be donating next week!}
Here are some shots of what I have been up to:
enjoying my Lilly of the valley plants that started blooming last week
Made spaghetti alla carbonara and discovered I do not like the taste of pancetta {or perhaps just the brand my grocery store carries?}



I applied teak oil to our patio set. I skipped doing it last year and the wood was very dry and faded. It is amazing how a couple of coats of teak oil made such a huge difference {I should have done a before shot!} They still need another coat but I will wait a couple of weeks I think. The market umbrella I picked up at Christmas Tree Shop for $45. This is the second market umbrella I have purchased there. The first one lasted two summers but was in pretty rough shape at the end of last summer. However, we use and abused it {leaving it up most of the time and not covering it} and for the price I think that is a decent useful life, especially considering that the more expensive ones will still fade and probably not last any longer. The cushions I picked up on extreme clearance last fall at target. I love them and I am delighted they are still being stocked {for full price} this year! The Adirondack chairs were also a target purchase.
Also, if you look at the siding of the house above the market umbrella, you will notice that our property management company has LONG neglected pressure washing the exterior!! I spent half a day scrubbing the parts I could reach because I could not take it any more. Now that I have free time I will most certainly be inquiring about that!!!
In addition to cleaning my house top to bottom, I made some time to start making my way through these reading materials! All with my handsome buddy curled up by my feet.
On another note, I graduate from Law School tomorrow!! I can hardly believe it because it feels like only yesterday I left Davis, California and finished college. I have been so busy the past week it is only just hitting me now that I am entering uncharted waters in terms of studying for the bar and starting the next, professional phase of my life. I have spent the last at least 10 years working towards the goal of going to Law School and being successful there. Now that I have done that and obtained an amazing job, I have no more goals. Of course I want to work hard and be successful once I start work in the fall and I want to find a perfect house to buy, other than that there are no specific milestones that I feel I must achieve. Maybe that is a good thing because I have spent as long as I can remember waiting to get to the next stage and almost wishing time away. Wishing for college to go by faster {this was in the midst of a long distance relationship with S}, and wishing for S's deployments to go by faster. Now that I have gotten to where I want to be, I think it is time to abandon these broad long term goals and start enjoying each day for what it is. Yes, I still need to set goals regarding my performance at work and consider how I want my career to shape. And I need to at some point consider how to balance work and a family {maybe a couple of years from now . . . } But for the immediate future, I think my only goal will be to attempt to lead a balanced life, enjoy good meals and good company, make time for the activities I love, and overall appreciate and love life. Because I am very fortunate and blessed for all of the opportunities I have been given and success I have achieved.
Have a wonderful weekend!! I will be back on Monday with graduation pictures!